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14.11.2009
In one of the Crimean Tatar national publications published an article in which the Crimean Tatar girl, a woman called “guardian of the national gene pool.” Name of this, of course, sweet, and most importantly – to the impossibility of a proud and honorable. However, in recent years raises the question: why is a certain amount of “custodians of the gene pool”, whose number is growing every year, prefer to marry and start a family with representatives of other nationalities, and not with the Crimean Tatar guys. However, in fairness it should be noted, religious and cultural component of the still prevalent, and the majority of elected representatives from the Crimean Tatar Muslims, for example, the Turks, the Kazan Tatars, Arabs and others. So one wonders why, among the Crimean Tatar people, whose representatives are promoting and fighting for their national ideas, there are such phenomena.
It should be noted that the author of the article did not set svoey task to conduct a thorough sociological study, but to create an objective picture of the Crimean Tatar community in the process, conducted a survey of 250 Crimean Tatar girls and women aged 18 to 35 years who have not yet established their families. All of them were asked three questions: “Is it possible to get married not because of the Crimean Tartar?”, “If you – yes, who will be your chosen one?”, And indeed, “Why do you suppose such a possibility?”.
As it turned out, we surveyed 250 of the Crimean Tatar girls and women, 214 stated that “unhappy Crimean Tatar men and not averse to search happiness on the side. Also, it should be noted that out of 214 “potential immigrant” 189 girls see as spouses only representatives of the Islamic culture (mainly Turks, Arabs, and slightly less so on). 25 respondents favorable view of marriage and with representatives of other religious faiths. It can be concluded that the Crimean Tatar environment still pretty much the concept of “one faith” and the girls subconsciously seek to create a marriage is with the religion professed by themselves.
Well, with quantitative indicators, more or less sorted out. Now offer to move to the qualitative component of the question, that is, WHY?
In response, suggest that the view of the Kiev psychologist Suzanne Seit-Khalilov. According to her, the fundamental driving force in this case is the subconscious desire of eastern women feel the freedom and escape from those frameworks that are somehow forcing women Islamic worldview.
“In the course of historical development of Islamic culture have focused on and continues to play a man. Thus, a man can pamper and cherish their woman, but a purely psychological always devoted to her second place and, consequently, dependent position. Hence the unconscious dissatisfaction with women “, – said Susanna Seit-Khalilov.
This is – first. And secondly, the same outlook, according to Susanna Seit-Khalilova, played a cruel joke with the Crimean Tatar men. They therefore outlook, in contrast to women more introverted and zeal to comply with various regulations.
“This is exactly the opposite. As I said, man has always been the highest position. But why change something if everything so well, I can command chief and right and left. Here’s what a hypertrophied form of his understanding of masculinity in the Crimean Tatar environment “- the psychologist explained and clarified that no such trend in the traditionally Muslim countries, due to the fact that there they are as integral a part of a political and economic ways of life.
From the explanations Susanna Seit-Khalilova can see that the root of the problem lies in the specific perception of the national ideology based on Islam, in the European states, such as Ukraine. And given that the economic situation in the country leaves much to be desired, and the young man is often difficult to implement as a full-fledged and self-sufficient man, it is no wonder why for centuries nourished the principles become negative.
Now is the time to open the reader to the fact that 214 women responded to the question why they choose to marry not for the Crimean Tatar.
“Tatar boys and men are rude and do not know how to treat women properly, but the team and all require obedience, jealous of each post and in most cases greedy. Rarely found among the Crimean Tatars really educated and intelligent young man who would see in you a woman, not a housewife “- such was the common response of respondents Crimean Tatar.
Some of the Crimean psychologists Sergei Konovalov also confirms the recent trend in society’s subconscious negative “interpretation of reality” in difficult conditions, such as, for example, crisis, economic instability, unemployment, etc.
“Dissatisfied with his position as a man who, due to certain factors can not realize themselves in life, seeking a basis for self-assertion and often is not where it should be”, – said Sergey Konovalov.
So it turns out that due to a “failed men” and their arrogance Crimean Tatar people can lose the most important – “guardians of the gene pool.”
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